Pak Harto was known for his hard work, discipline, and meticulous nature. He had a strict daily routine, waking up early in the morning and arriving at his office punctually at 08:00 am. He had a strong memory and was skilled with numbers, and he always encouraged people to study science and technology. Despite never being educated abroad, he believed in the importance of learning from different places.
As his son-in-law in 1983, I had the opportunity to observe Pak Harto’s daily life up close. He had a small study where he would work late into the night, often getting only a few hours of sleep. His neat handwriting and photographic memory were remarkable, and he would spend hours reading and signing documents every night.
Pak Harto’s knowledge of Javanese philosophy and history was also evident in his leadership style. He often referenced ancient teachings and cultural practices in his leadership approach. His book, Butir-Butir Budaya Jawa (Javanese Cultural Maxim), compiled important maxims and adages that reflected the Indonesian psyche.
I remember a time when I was heading an operation in East Timor and was summoned by Pak Harto. He gave me three pieces of advice – ojo lali, ojo dumeh, ojo ngoyo – which I carried with me during the mission. Despite expecting financial assistance, I left with valuable wisdom from a leader with extensive combat experience.
Pak Harto’s influence in Indonesian history and his deep understanding of military operations made his advice invaluable. His words carried the weight of his past experiences and successes on the battlefield. His leadership style, rooted in traditional teachings and practical wisdom, left a lasting impact on those who worked closely with him.